Remembering Brother Peter Hinch

Peter Hinch
   1937 – 2024

Peter passed away peacefully at the John M. Parrott Centre in Napanee on Wednesday, February 21, 2024, in his 87th year. Beloved husband of Joan Hinch and the late Marion Hinch (1988). Loving father of Daniel (Patricia), Katherine (Ken) and Peter (Nancy) and cherished grandfather of Meredith, Gabrielle, Avery, Jessica and Clare. Lovingly remembered by many nieces and nephews and their families. Predeceased by his parents Peter and Gertrude Hinch, his brother James Hinch (Cecile) and sisters Elizabeth Hinch, Mary Lynch (John) and Rita Gallagher (John).

Mass of Christian Burial was held at St. Anthony of Padua Church in Centreville on Saturday, February 24, 2024 at 11 am. Cremation followed. For those desiring, memorial donations to St. Anthony of Padua Building Fund would be appreciated by the family.

Arrangements entrusted to Payne Funeral Home in Odessa.
Please share your memories and condolences to the family.

Tempus Fugit, Memento Mori

Brother Knights,

Tempus Fugit, Memento Mori. Time Flies, Remember Death. These are the watchwords of our order and since my last article they have featured prominently in our council and in my life. Brother’s Gerrard Tuepah, Val Dumais, Tim Seitz, and Gerry Steenburgh have all passed from this life into the eternal light of our Lord since the beginning of this year. And at the time of writing, my last week has really shown me that time can fly by in an instant. The wife of my cousin Jason Bolton, Lisa, at just 49 years old went to see the doctor because something didn’t feel right on Monday, was taken in for emergency double bypass surgery where something went tragically wrong, and she passed away early the Tuesday morning.

Brothers, we all prepare ourselves in one way or another for the loss of a loved one or friend and as hard as it is to lose someone in old age or due to illness, we often have time to mentally prepare ourselves, but too often we look at death as something that can only take the old and the sick and that the young have their whole lives ahead of them. But we do not know God’s plan. The end of the week found me attending 3 funerals in 3 days. Brother Gerry Steenburgh, Thursday, Father Peter Murphy, Friday, and Lisa’s on Saturday. Br. Gerry had been sick for some time, Father Murphy was in his 90’s, but Lisa was in her 40’s and not expected. It was after I got home Saturday that it really hit me. Thinking about when I gave Jason and Lisa’s 11 year old daughter Emma a rosary and told her to keep it with her, if she feels frustrated, hold it, if she feels angry hold it, if she feels sad, hold it, touch the beads and Our Lady will comfort you, just before her mother’s funeral, and that if she would like to learn to pray it that her grandmother, my aunt Karen or I would help her learn and pray with her.

Remember we know not the time nor the place in which our Lord will call us from this life. Please pray for all these families and for one another. If you have the time, please say the rosary for the deceased and their families.

Tempus Fugit, Memento Mori.

Vivat Jesus!

Ryan Polywkan
Grand Knight

Remembering Brother Gerry Steenburgh

Gerald “Gerry” Steenburgh

Peacefully at Kingston General Hospital on Tuesday, February 20, 2024 in his 85th year. Beloved husband of the late Lise. Cherished Papa of Damien. Fondly remembered by his siblings Lorraine Steenburgh, and Ron Steenburgh. Predeceased by siblings Victor, Alice, June, Robert, Donald, Jack, Hazel, Kenneth, and Barbara.

Guests are invited to the Township Chapel of the Gordon F. Tompkins Funeral Homes, 435 Davis Dr., for Visitation on Wednesday, February 28, 2024 from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m., and 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Paul the Apostle Catholic Church, 1111 Taylor-Kidd Blvd., on Thursday, February 29, 2024 at 10:30 a.m. A Reception will follow from 12 p.m. – 3 p.m. at the Royal Canadian Legion Branch 560, 734 Montreal Street, Kingston.

For those wishing, Mass intentions would be appreciated.
Online book of condolences at www.GFTompkins-Township.ca.

Remembering Brother Tim Seitz

SEITZ, Donald “Tim”

Donald “Tim” Seitz died peacefully at Kingston General Hospital before noon on Saturday, February 3, 2024 after a 5-year decline with dementia. Tim was born on April 7, 1938 in Wyandotte, Michigan to Lillian (Hostik) and William “Don” Seitz. He loved and was loved by his wife, Joanna (Gostomski), his son Donald, and his daughters Gretchen (and husband David Deskin), Sarah, and Rachel (who passed away in 2019). He is fondly remembered by his grandchildren, Mitchell and Steven Seitz, and Zoë and Noah Deskin, as well as his many nieces and nephews. Tim is survived by his sister, Carolyn (John) Paulitch, and his brother Geoff (Carol) Seitz. He was well loved by Joanna’s family: her parents Joe and Sophie (both deceased), Ray (deceased) and MaryAnn Gostomski, Rosalie and Frank Tislerics, Gerry and Linda Gostomski, and Janet and Dennis (deceased) Gilbo. He was predeceased by his faithful dogs Thatcher and Tilly.

Many who knew Tim would call him a character. He was a proud, intelligent iconoclast who was unafraid of holding an alternative view or challenging the status quo. He was always a deep thinker, with a lifelong curiosity about the world we live in and the universe beyond – a curiosity he encouraged in his kids and grandkids, and the many students he taught over his long career teaching Mathematics, Computers and Religion both in the US and Canada. He taught at both Regiopolis-Notre Dame and Holy Cross Secondary Schools in Kingston, retiring in 2003. He was an avid lover of Classical and Flamenco music, and was an accomplished guitarist himself. He also loved fishing, stargazing, and the outdoors; often fondly remembering outings in the bush in Northern Ontario. He became an ardent and vocal critic of nuclear power and nuclear armaments out of his love of nature and concern for future generations.

Thank you to Doctors Payne, Wu and Tran, nurses Kara, Erika and Hilary, and all the staff of Connell 3. Their kind support made the journey easier.

Family will be receiving friends on Saturday, February 10, 2024 at 11:00 a.m., at the Gordon F. Tompkins Funeral Home, Township Chapel, 435 Davis Drive, Kingston, followed by a Service in the chapel at 12:00 p.m.

To honour Tim’s memory, you may wish to donate to the Ontario Clean Air Alliance or to the Canadian Coalition for Nuclear Responsibility. Sharing of online memories is available at www.GFTompkins-Township.ca

Remembering Brother Phil Healey

It is with great sadness that we announce the sudden passing of Philip Norman Healey, on February 1st, 2024, in Kingston, Ontario, in his 79th year.

Philip was born in Grand Falls – Windsor, Newfoundland to Philip and Beatrice Healey on August 18th, 1944. He married his beautiful wife, Madeline (Chow) Healey in 1968 and they moved to Ontario to raise their family. Philip was an Electrical Engineering Technologist and Supervisor for the Ministry of Transportation for 29 years while living and serving in the Milton community.

Philip enjoyed spending his time on long walks and took great pride in special family moments at their cottage, Healey’s Crossing. He was a notorious jokester who lovingly teased his friends and family while sharing his wisdom, philosophical insights, and Newfoundland anecdotes. It was evident that his pride and joy was his wife and the wonderful family that they created together.

Philip is survived by his wife, Madeline (Chow) Healey, his three sons Philip (Michelle), Shawn (Heather), and Christopher (Amy). Cherished Poppy to grandchildren Kyle, Madeline, Tyler, Kevin, Mya, and Lewis. Beloved brother to Roy, Fred (deceased), Dennis, Terry, David, Theresa, and Edward. A favourite son and brother-in-law to the Chow family and cherished Uncle to many nieces and nephews. Philip was a good friend to many, willing to strike up a conversation with a neighbour or lend a helping hand (at a moment’s notice) to anyone in need.

A celebration of Philip’s life will take place in the summer. Donations can be made in honour of Philip to Queen’s University Cancer Research Institute or to Saint Vincent de Paul Society (Kingston).

Remembering Brother Gerard Tuepah

 
Gerard Tuepah
March 24, 1961 – January 1, 2024 (age 62)

With great sadness, we announce the passing of Gerard, at the Providence Care Hospital in Kingston on Monday, January 1, 2024, surrounded by family. He is predeceased by his loving parents, Don and Wilda Tuepah, and by his brother Barry. He is survived by his daughter Alicia and grandson Avery Kinkley-Dale. He will be missed by his siblings Dale (Lyne), Tony, Patti, Christine Sulpher and Lisa (Paul Sullivan) Whalen. He will be remembered by his sister-in-law, Loreen Tuepah, by many nieces, nephews, cousins and uncle Mike Scullion. In recent years, Gerard proudly became a member of the Knights of Columbus, joining St Paul the Apostle Council 9652, Kingston. The family will receive friends at the Hannah Funeral Home, in Tamworth on Sunday, January 7 from 3:00-6:00 P.M. and again on Monday morning from 10:00-10:30 a.m. in the funeral home. Mass of Christian Burial at the Church of the Assumption in Erinsville on Monday, January 8 at 11:00 a.m. Interment Assumption Cemetery. Reception follows at the funeral home. Memorial donations made to the University Hospitals Kingston Foundation (UHKF) would be appreciated by the family.

VISITATION

Sunday
January 7, 2024
3:00 PM to 6:00 PM

Monday
January 8, 2024
10:00 AM to 10:30 AM

Hannah Funeral Homes Ltd. – Napanee/Tamworth
6689 Wheeler Street
Tamworth, ON K0K 3G0
(613-379-2997)

MASS OF CHRISTIAN BURIAL

Monday
January 8, 2024
11:00 AM
Church of the Assumption
6046 County Road 41
Erinsville, ON K0K 2A0

RECEPTION

Monday
January 8, 2024
12:30 PM
Hannah Funeral Homes Ltd. – Napanee/Tamworth
6689 Wheeler Street
Tamworth, ON K0K 3G0

Donations

University Hospitals Kingston Foundation
55 Rideau St., Suite #4, Kingston ON K7K 2Z8
Tel: 1-613-549-5452
Email: foundation@uhkf.ca
Web: http://uhkf.ca

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you all.

Quickly we will find ourselves approaching the season of Lent again. We seem to move rather quickly from celebrating the birth of our Lord and Saviour to His death on the cross.

For me personally I find that at the beginning of Advent I have an opportunity to refocus on my faith and to try to do something to build on it, and the beginning of Lent gives me the opportunity to fix, adjust, or add to what I began at Advent and maybe fell behind on, or to get a better understanding of, or add something new all together.

A few years back it was taking up praying the rosary daily and that has become an essential part of my life that makes me who I am. Over the years I have tried and failed but have taken the opportunity each year to at Advent and/or Lent to increase my faith. For Avent 2023 I began praying the liturgy of the hours. This was one of the things that I had failed at in years past, but I had to try it again. I started praying one per day to work on getting an understanding but within a week I was praying two per day which is what is recommended for laymen. I find some days I will pray 3 or 4 and the odd busy day 1, but I’ve managed to stick with it through the month.

I would like to challenge each of you to take the opportunity at lent this year to start something to build your faith, it could be new or something old you’ve stopped and feel the urge to start again or join a faith development program. Even if you just spend a couple extra moments pondering the daily readings, I encourage you to take this opportunity to build on and increase your faith.

God bless you,

Vivat Jesus!

Ryan Polywkan
Grand Knight

Carry the torch into the future

Brother Knights,

I would like to thank everyone for the successes of the last few months with our council. There were many things that we were involved in within our community. We had Brother Knights help at St Marguerite Bourgeoys with their welcome back event, a barbeque at St. Teresa of Calcutta school, a barbeque at Newman House on Queen’s University Campus in support to Catholic Christian Outreach, a Parish Spaghetti Supper which was both a welcome for Father Michel and a birthday party for Father John, a Parish Fish Fry, a couple First Friday Eucharistic Adoration events and the continuation of the ASK program. To say September and October have been busy is an understatement. Brother’s, you have made this all possible with your generous ability to jump in and help out when needed. We have no problem with volunteers on the day of the event, however, finding people to help organize these events has become a bit of a sore spot for our council. We need your help prior to these events. Most of them don’t take much time in committee, and we have seasoned veterans willing to pass on their knowledge. Please take advantage of these opportunities while they are available to learn from these dedicated brothers who have committed so much time and effort over the years to make these events of all types happen. We owe them our thanks for what they have accomplished and there is no better way to do that then to learn as much as we can from them and carry the torch into the future.

Thank you for all of your hard work and may God bless you always.

Vivat Jesus!

Ryan Polywkan
Grand Knight

Embrace change as it happens

Brother Knights,

I was recently reminded of something that I do not always think about – changes in assignments within our own clergy. Our parish recently underwent some changes with our Associate Pastor Father Paul Mawalla being reassigned to Perth and Father Michel Quenneville returning to our parish for the first time since being ordained a Priest. This move shows us that we must embrace change as it happens. It’s not just those moving that are affected, but also those Priests who remain.

I was recently in a small farming town parish near Lake Huron for Mass while we were visiting my wife’s family and they too had a new priest, Father Ray Lawhead, who was given exactly one week’s notice to move from Lasalle, near Windsor, to Petrolia, near Sarnia, an assignment with 4 parishes. Speaking with him after Mass that Sunday emphasized something that Fr Michel mentioned at our last general meeting, that there is a state of mourning that priests go through when leaving one parish to go to a new one. This is a change with moving away from friends and parishioners that you have become close to, your parish family.

I consider us very fortunate to have had time to plan and hold a farewell party for Father Paul. Father Ray in Petrolia will have to wait to go back to Lasalle for a visit when his time will allow. These men that we are lucky enough to call Father have hardships like the rest of us. They live a life of service, and we should do whatever we can to assist them, and we must always keep them in our prayers.

For all of our Priests, Deacons, and Religious, thank you for everything that you do, and know that we are here for you as Knights, men, and faithful Catholics. May God continue to bless your ministries.

Vivat Jesus!

Ryan Polywkan
Grand Knight

Be Charitable

Brothers,

I would like to thank all of you for your support in my first year as Grand Knight. I have learned a lot in this last year.

Just before I took on this role, our council had experimented with our first “event” in a few years, an after-mass coffee social, to knock the rust off. In the year since I took office, we have held 2 golf tournaments, several back-to-school BBQ’s, Newman House BBQ, Fish Fry, Degree Team exemplification at St Mary’s Cathedral, First Communion Rosary presentations, several end of year BBQ’s, school awards at 5 schools, and a Multi-Cultural Food Festival. And I’m probably missing things too.

There is a great amount of planning that goes into each of these events, some more than others, and getting back on track after years of lockdown has not been easy. Everything we’ve done has essentially been a new event. We could not gauge the numbers that we would see as it has been so long since the last time, we held similar events, and we also didn’t know how people would react. Would they keep 6 ft distances, would they wear masks, would they even come? Well, they came! And without your help in these events, they would not have happened.

This coming fraternal year we need you more than ever. We have events lined up but will need help organizing and staffing them. The groundwork is largely laid out now, so that makes things a bit easier, but we need members who have not been out in a while to come back into the fold. Your help is always welcome and ap-appreciated. It has been a very busy year and it is only going to continue to stay busy.

Remember that we are an order based on Charity, Unity, and Fraternity. Our foremost principal is Charity. So please be charitable with your time and abilities assisting your council and parish where help is needed. Thank you to everyone who helped throughout the year in any capacity — you have made this council a tremendous success. And thank you for supporting me. I am still learning and will make mistakes, so I ask that you please keep me in your prayers.

God bless you all.

Vivat Jesus!

Ryan Polywkan
Grand Knight

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